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How often do you think about sex?

Posted by Cat • 12/27/07 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: frequency of sexual thoughts, sex

This is a clean question. Please don't post pornographic responses. just an honest simple reply will do. thanks!!!

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12/27/07

offendedblogger

Just now when I noticed your question! :o

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1. 1/24/08
  
  anuiscool
  
  heeehheee nice !!!!
  so whn i m commenting on u !!! wud u b thinking abt me !!!
  
  hey u r thinking......hhhheeeeeeee
12/27/07

ModelElaine

Never

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1. 12/27/07
  
  offendedblogger
  
  Never?? I'm sure the men around you can't say the same!
2. 12/27/07
  
  johnsblogs42
  
  I can somewhat believe that. You are married and have a couple kids don't you? I suppose that could take a lil' edge off.
  
  But never at all? You are sooooooooo lying. 8^)
  
  John
  Hoopy Frood Dude
  hoopyfrooddude.blogspot.com/
3. 12/27/07
  
  ModelElaine
  
  I have more sex then I want to think of LOL, so while I am not having sex, I don't even want to think about it, and while I am having sex I think of something else
4. 1/07/08
  
  scholarpreneur
  
  That's because you've never been around me.
5. 3/24/08
  
  Donlewis
  
  I just did. And I'm not even around her.
6. 9/05/08
  
  frank2042
  
  Cool reply
  
  www.garanew.com
7. 9/08/08
  
  hellboi
  
  I'm with that. Don't think, just do, right?;)
8. 9/08/08
  
  hellboi
12/27/07

Xight

Being the average male, about 6 times while writing and posting this comment.

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1. 12/27/07
  
  careysaysums
  
  Just six? How much is too much for "average"? Aw, eff it. Oops, is that considered one time?
2. 9/05/08
  
  frank2042
  
  Cool topic, maybe check out my blog and you will all think about sex?
  
  www.garanew.com
12/27/07

dannyvice

Well statistically, I think the Kinsey Institude determined it to be about every 8 seconds for males.... For me it all depends on my mood, but certainly not anywhere near 8 seconds. =)

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1. 12/27/07
  
  offendedblogger
  
  Kinsey was a pervert lol, you can't trust his data.
2. 1/24/08
  
  anuiscool
  
  yeah this is the nice answer !!!!
  gud 1 keep it up !@!
  
  todaysnet.blogspot.com
12/27/07

Cat

you bloggers are all hilarious. can't wait to hear more from everyone. and thanks for answering my poll.

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12/27/07

ttiger

too often if i dont have sex during the days with a GF or lover ( im single for 1 mouth now) i masturbate at least once a day!

aarrg i can believe i tell you this

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1. 12/27/07
  
  johnsblogs42
  
  Waaaaayyyyy too much info.
2. 12/27/07
  
  crpitt
  
  I just threw up
3. 12/27/07
  
  ghostytwofish
  
  "( im single for 1 mouth now)"
  
  Freud: Your slip is showing.
4. 1/24/08
  
  anuiscool
  
  hey buddy sam is the case wdth me !!!
  
  todaysnet.blogspot.com
12/27/07

ttiger

in fact i touch my pee pee every time i'm in front of my PC (masturbate before work i better for productivity and before a movie is better for concentration)

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1. 12/31/07
  
  Wawaron
  
  Ça se peut tu que tu leur racontes ca ? hihihi ;o)))
12/27/07

Merlyn73

Huh? What's that you asked me? Sorry, I was thinking about something....

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12/27/07

ttiger

while watching your Over40andFeelingFine and watching your pics while touching my pee pee some idea were popping in my brain
naahhh
just kidding

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12/27/07

thegnr

Any one who says they never think about sex probably thinks about it all day. You will find some women that say never because some are afraid of how others will view them. Sex is a natural don't be ashamed of it, how do you think we all got here people.
I would say on average about 2-4 times a day.

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12/27/07

trlrtrash13

It is every eight seconds. But we sleep a third of the day so... But I don't usually think about sex that much anymore. I'm on a higher plane of enlightenment. I ponder the great mysteries of the cosmos. Like "I wonder if I could eat this whole slice of pizza in one bite".

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12/27/07

voodooKobra

Constantly.

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12/27/07

crkian

.....finished

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1. 12/27/07
  
  Unfettered
  
  lol!
12/27/07

emiltsch

well...3 times while I responded to this...

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12/27/07

emiltsch

and three more times after I responded...

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12/27/07

PetLvr

Yah .. what XIGHT said - but, I'm a faster typist

On a related topic - I posted an interesting Condom Ad from YouTube on one of my sites this week - www.callhart.com/crazy/2007/12/funny-durex-condom-commercial/ - that'll stop the thoughts ..

According to my refer stats www.callhart.com/crazy/refer/index.php?glimpse=7 I've had almost 7000 views in the past 7 days .. It's quite hillarious (probably NotSafeForWork) and needs sound.

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1. 12/27/07
  
  ModelElaine
  
  poor guy lol
12/27/07

Unfettered

I don't think I ever thought about sex every 8 seconds. Good grief. This is the weirdest statistic. How could one get anything done?

Now I'm in my 40's. I think about a warm bath and a good steak way more often and with much more satisfaction.

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12/27/07

crpitt

Can I ask why you want to know? How often do you?

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1. 12/27/07
  
  crkian
  
  Thats another 15 times now
12/27/07

freeatlast

o jeepers

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12/27/07

crazedmama

My husband used to call me a nympho, lol. That was until I had twins. After they were born, my sex drive just dwindled. I think about it maybe a few times a week. It used to always be on my mind but most of the time now I would just rather go to sleep!

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12/27/07

bloggernoob

not as much as i used to. I probably peaked at around 22 or so. sad really.

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12/27/07

humorvice

crazedmama... You're just tired. Go on vacation to a beach somewhere without kids and I'll bet my blog you'll find that you're still a nympho. Just a tired nympho.

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12/27/07

humorvice

and. ummm. Cat? You never answered crpitt's question? Time for you to get under the white hot spotlight and 'fess up!

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12/27/07

ghostytwofish

Please, questions like this distract me from thinking about sex!

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12/27/07

lotusinthehills

I remember a time before I knew what sex was. Last Tuesday to be exact. Now I know it has something to do with a hoo hoo and a haa haa, whatever those are...

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12/27/07

Puffmatty

way too much, cant get dirty magazines here

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12/28/07

Cat

I asked this question because i wrote in my blog about the differences between how often men and women think about sex. And I had read somewhere that men think about sex about 10 times per day (i've never heard of it being every 8 seconds. yikes, how do they get anything done? :-)

and i was also saying that there are new drugs on the market that increase a woman's sex drive, and that if i had that drug when i was married, maybe my marriage and sex life would have been better.

so i decided to ask average everyday people (if we bloggers can be considered average everyday people) how often they thought about sex. And i must say, i'm shocked and aghast at how often people think about sex. :-)

Like trlrtrash13, I am also on a higher plane of enlightenment now and rarely think about sex. and like lotusinthehills i'm almost at a point where i don't remember what sex is. is that just sad, or is it enlightment? i guess its all relative. eh?

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1. 12/28/07
  
  ghostytwofish
  
  Sad, kinda. There's nothing wrong with sex. Sex is good.
  
  People who say they're on a "higher plane of enlightenment" becuse they don't think about sex are, well ... unfamiliar with the true concepts behind the Karma Sutra.
12/28/07

ghostytwofish

Ten times a DAY? HAHAHAHA!

Try ten times a minute - and that's a slow day for me

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12/28/07

jackpayne

Since I have been a widower of 7 years past, I think in this realm about once every 2 years. (Is there any hope for me?)

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12/28/07

Puffmatty

every time i see jackpaynes picture

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1. 1/01/08
  
  bittertruth
  
  hahahahaha
2. 4/27/08
  
  weemundo
  
  ha ha rofl !
3. 5/25/08
  
  kat822
  
  I thought I was the only one lol shhhhhhhhhhhhh don't tell Benny
12/28/07

Rozie818

With the right partner, sex can't be ignored.
With the right fantasy partner sex can't be ignored.
Sex is healthy no matter how often you think of it, and way healthy the more you perform. Life without sex, is like well, life without sex.

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12/29/07

exinco

always thinking but not do

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12/29/07

zawadi

When Aunt Flow is about to visit, my eggs scream to be fertalized. I don't like the feeling cause i'm single at the moment lol

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1. 12/30/07
  
  iriegal
  
  you too huh? I thought Aunt Flow only did that to me...lol
2. 4/23/08
  
  earthlingorgeous
  
  2nd the motion
12/29/07

harleyblues

all the time don't most people?

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12/29/07

ghostytwofish

Hey, good to see we're all still on the front page, thinking about sex! And no one's done a Borat impersonation yet, I'm impressed!

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12/29/07

antibarbie

All day, every day. I have a high sex drive and I'm not ashamed.

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1. 12/30/07
  
  Puffmatty
  
  so....ya doin' anything later?
2. 12/30/07
  
  ghostytwofish
  
  ROFL
12/29/07

crkian

Goes up when your on blogcatalog what with all the lovely ladies.

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12/29/07

robinsonjoel

Being single I think about sensuous ways of touching my partner(in case I meet one)!

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12/29/07

Cat

yes, i think sex is very healthy too. i just don't have it that often anymore. so is it an age thing? and i hear that when you don't have it very often, your sex drive actually decreases. so the "use it or lose it" saying is very true in this case. jackpayne, sorry to hear you only think about sex once every 2 years. :-( And Zawadi, i'm not even sure i want to ask... oh duh, i just figured out who Aunt Flow is. I call her "my best friend" (in a very sarcastic tone of voice).
ok, so the whole "men think about sex 10 x a day" seems to be wayyyyy off. i'll have to update my blog on this new bit of info.

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12/29/07

crpitt

On watching James Bond last night with the Lovely Daniel Craig, I found I thought about it more often

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1. 12/29/07
  
  offendedblogger
  
  Hooyah, even straight men think about it when watching that man...
12/29/07

Xight

8640 times since I last posted in this thread 1 day ago.

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12/29/07

lamenews

simple whenever i see someone goodlooking (tv, magazine, life, art, internet, movie) so all the time

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12/29/07

mtchick

Since it's in every TV show, every shampoo commercial, every magazine, it's difficult not to think about sex all of the time. It's everywhere you look. The local TV station just hired a sexy weather girl, so even the weather is sexy now.

If it weren't for the media, we'd probably think about sex a lot less.

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1. 12/29/07
  
  Xight
  
  I'd have to disagree to that. Its just human nature. People thought about it long before television was even available.
2. 12/29/07
  
  mtchick
  
  Obviously.
  
  The media wouldn't let us forget about sex for a minute even if we wanted to, is what I'm saying...they put it right there, everywhere we look.
3. 12/29/07
  
  offendedblogger
  
  See you guys are lucky, babes everywhere you look. Even the news anchors look like porn stars now. But as a straight female there is not enough eye candy for *me* in the media.
  
  I demand equality!
4. 12/29/07
  
  mtchick
  
  Yes! I'm always complaining about the lack of male eye candy for us to drool over in the media. I did see a commercial the other day with a shirtless hunk in it, and I was so excited to finally see such a thing on TV, I can't remember what the commercial was about.
5. 12/30/07
  
  robinsonjoel
  
  Television publicized it just like everything else.
12/29/07

stevenwilson

When I'm breathing.

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1. 12/30/07
  
  iriegal
  
  Steve...love your reply
2. 12/31/07
  
  ID4ID4
  
  Bingo!
12/29/07

offendedblogger

Well thanks to Cat, who began this post, we are all completely perverted now and thinking about sex, sex, sex non-stop.

I even decided to quit my job as a nun and move to Vegas to be a stripper...I hope she's happy! Heh, I know I will be!

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12/30/07

friedclyde

hahaha offeneded blogger's favorite thread !

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12/30/07

redfinger

24/7

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12/30/07

starwin

every 5 minutes...i am cruising along in sensous erotic thoughts..hmmmmmmmmmmmmm.........when things go out of control, I give it a HELPING HAND..hope u got the message...
real sexy question...cat...

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12/30/07

iriegal

When I am not doing it I am thinking about it...so since I am not doing IT...I guess right now...lol

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12/30/07

kingtang

i guess is every times female pass by.

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12/31/07

Cat

hello and happy new year!!!

i posted some of your comments on my blog with links to your blogs as a thank you for answering my survey and being so honest and open (although some of you were a bit too open). :-) but that's what happens when you bring up sex, it opens the flood gates.

offended blogger, i'm glad i was able to help you make a career change. good luck in vegas.

i'll post more comments on my blog if more come in so feel free to post more of your thoughts on sex here. thanks.

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1. 12/31/07
  
  offendedblogger
  
  Thanks Cat, being a nun was getting old anyway...but uh, just don't expect a cut of my massive earnings!
12/31/07

myroslimh

almost every hour....

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12/31/07

jrgarralda

Constantly... even while doing hard work LOL

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12/31/07

Wawaron

:o)

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1/01/08

robeyf

I'll be right back, I need to get some Kleenex and a cigarette . . .

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1. 1/01/08
  
  Theresa111
  
  Ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha!
1/01/08

Maxker

It's unhealthy NOT to think about sex. It's our number one driving force....:-)

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1. 1/02/08
  
  coniac
  
  Absolutely!...It's a established fact that sex is good for health ..so :-)
1/01/08

ProBlogReviews

Every time I see a beautiful woman

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1/01/08

Offbeatnews

All the time...does that make me a perv? Or just a horny-toad?

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1/01/08

bbrian017

Daily maybe even hourly

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1/01/08

Theresa111

I have a feeling that almost everything is brought about by the sexual force within us all. Participating in the act of sex versus thinking about it has its pros and cons. Usually the cons are that the actual experience is short-lived but the thinking about it can go on for hours ... whilst we go about the chores and writing, we know it is lurking just behind the veil in our minds. This force is, I believe, what provides the thinker with the resources to continue in a civilized manner and in the end, producing works of art. So, I rather suppose it is more about passion than about sex ... because passion, lasts a very long time.

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1/01/08

kdawg68

Non stop - the better question is when do I not think about it?

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1/01/08

bittertruth

every day, i guess not every few secs as someone wrote..
cos, we never have control on our emotion and we never count those things... but it's just like every day..

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1/01/08

genopianist54

:hmmm: :hmmm: still thinking...:waggle:

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1/02/08

Digitalpolaroids

Almost all the time... It's summer and I'm taking my vacations right now...

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1/02/08

fernandezj

...............done

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1/02/08

fairul

At least two times a day, I only stop thinking about sex when there is a live soccer game EPL....soccer/football game is more than sex to me..here come the RED DEVIL,..

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1. 1/03/08
  
  robinsonjoel
  
  lol! Dedicated Red devil fan ugh!
  
  By the way I'm an Ac Milan fan
1/02/08

shadowknight

Looks left ... looks right ... OK no ones looking ... none!

Yes I am a BS artist and like most humans I think about it constantly. Heck its our own animal nature!

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1/02/08

Cat

Robeyf,
cleaning up with a kleenex?!!! uuuuhhhhh.

Teresa111,
huh? what? that went way over my head. :-) and whats passion got to do with sex. unless of course, you are totally into the person you want to jump. now thats passion.

I've been writing in my blog about how i never think about sex and never have sex. But now that I've reread my blog and this blogcatalog, i realize that its all i write about. so i guess i'm in total denial about how often i think about sex. i guess i need to rethink that.

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1/03/08

shearyadi

Well...not too often, I guess it's hard to even think about sex when we have more than two blogs to manage everyday, except you have a blog with related issues with it

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1/03/08

dzrbenson

I get as much sex as I want from my Fiance, But I still think about it a fair bit.

Dale
dzrbenson.com/blog/

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1/03/08

Wawaron

SEX ? What is that ? Hey Cat, explain to this very young boy (55 years old)

named Wawaron what is SEX ?

Because, like all here, perhaps I would like think about sex if I knew what is that ?

:o)

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1/04/08

dannyvice

Dude... I left this thread for two days, and it turned into The Love Boat all of a sudden. Do I need to wear a raincoat when I come back tomorrow?

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1/05/08

alikoza

Don't think about it, just do it!!

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1/05/08

ashish028

SEX..yeah..sometimes...actually always before sleeping(daily 15min dose)
Maybe thinking and concentrating on a particulat topic will help concentrating on other things too...

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1/05/08

kdawg68

I'll let you guys in on an honest to god secret about guys....at least for me and every other guy I've ever talked to.

When we meet a woman for the first time, a process occurrs in our brains that takes about 1/10000th of a second. It's a fascinating process that for each individual is slightly different. Mine evidently tends to look for a cute face, nice juicy squeezable butt, pretty feet with cute well pedicured toes, and a tan complextion - but the end result is the same in each of us. Our brains compute and spit out a simple decision:

Yes or No?

That's it. Those are the two categories. I either would or would not have sex with the individual.

Now, I'm married and would never be unfaithful to my wife, but the assessment happens nonetheless and I'm convinced governs a large part of how we interract with each other from that point forward. Natural selection at work perhaps.

Most people won't admit it though because they are scared or embarrassed about their primitive sexual drive. We'd all like to be more pogressive and to be more open minded, and you can certainly "warm" to people over time or recognize beauty that you at first did not see, but if we are honest with ourselves we realize that very basic impulses and reporoductive stimulations have a tremendous affect on us socially.

Now back to your regularly scheduled programming. :-)

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1. 1/05/08
  
  offendedblogger
  
  Interesting, that's exactly what happens every time I see a man! So men and women aren't that different.
  
  Oh, except if the guy I am looking at has prety feet with nice pedicured toes, it's an instant NO.
2. 1/05/08
  
  kdawg68
  
  LOL @ offendedblogger. I guess we aren't that much different after all!
1/05/08

mugshot

not too often....SEX...but they say men thinkg...SEX....about sex every .....SEX SEX SEX.... seven seconds, for me its more.......SEX SEX SEX like every few minutes SEX SEX.

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1/05/08

Ging

I do not think sex unless I feel that I want it. Makes me think of sex now by reading your question. Hahaha! lol sex is great anyway and fun LOL bwahaha

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1/06/08

nhea4U

I only think about it when I'm relaxed and missing my husband.

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1/06/08

gosmelltheflowers

Us flowers think about sex rarely,

Unless you mention stems, stalks and buds and hey - anything GO!s.

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1/06/08

Cat

dannyvice, yes you may need to wear a raincoat, its starting to pour around here. I've got my unbrella set up over my powerbook. :-)

and I just have to respond to kdawg68, who wrote:

"When we meet a woman for the first time, a process occurrs in our brains that takes about 1/10000th of a second. It's a fascinating process that for each individual is slightly different. Mine evidently tends to look for a cute face, nice juicy squeezable butt, pretty feet with cute well pedicured toes, and a tan complextion - but the end result is the same in each of us. Our brains compute and spit out a simple decision:"

I don't think women size up a man in the first millisecond and decide if she'd sleep with him or not. Even though Offended Blogger says she thinks that way, I think she is an exception, not the rule.

Or am I the one that is the exception? any women out there who would like to tell us if it's true for them or not? I know that none of my friends think that way, cuz we discuss sex alot.

I posted a couple more the responses from here on my blog.

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1. 1/06/08
  
  kdawg68
  
  Fascinating. I've always wondered if women do this. There's certainly some level of "evaluation" that occurs though. Perhaps it's just a recognition of the possibility of attraction? I have no idea so like you I'd be curious to hear some replies.
1/06/08

JamesV

i think people who need to talk aobut it online pretty sick and wierd to be honest and cant relly get it.

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1. 1/06/08
  
  kdawg68
  
  and yet here you are! :-)
1/06/08

nibbie03

I think about it every time I see Sawyer from Lost or someone asks about it in a discussion board : )

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1/06/08

JamesV

and yet im not talking aobut it im giving a view of others that actually say it big difference

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1. 1/06/08
  
  kdawg68
  
  Oh, well in that case I hope it makes you feel good to troll a thread and criticize those that post in the discussion.
  
  You know, some might find that sick and weird.
  
  I bet you've got more bukakke on your hard drive than Quentin Tarrantino.
1/06/08

lordlikely

I think about it every sex seconds.

Sorry, I meant six seconds. My mind was...elsewhere.

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1/06/08

JamesV

ol my hard drive haha anyway nah i just prefer the real world like surfing and business to internet though i come on here once a week to check on things such as blogs.

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1/06/08

uri

My dad always told me, "son, there are two types of people in this world. Those that think about it and those that just........ "

And only with my wife of 31 years
Grace and Peace,
Ed

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1/06/08

Cat

kdawg68,
thanks for defending me against that blogscrooge JamesV. You're my hero and I'd have sex with you if you weren't a horse.

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1. 1/27/08
  
  kdawg68
  
  Hot diggity! Who knew blogcatalog could lead to such opportunities. You do know what they say about horses, right?
1/23/08

soupnumber5

More than I should I guess.

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1/24/08

Libertine

It's the first thought in the morning, the last thought at night, and it occupies a good bit of time in between.

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1/24/08

lamenews

69.5 times per minute

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1/27/08

kealabrown

Often. Daily. Several times a day.

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1/28/08

bluecrsytaldude

too often

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3/24/08

Proudmommy2

not that often... hehehe!

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3/24/08

happyfoodgirl

All the time!!!

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3/24/08

jojoblue

I dont think. I just do it. I am just kidding!

I really do not count.

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3/24/08

FLOOG

Many many times per day. And long may it last.

The day I do not find the female body sensual, sexual, wondrous and erotic, is the day after the last day of my life on this planet, hopefully.

And even then I'll probably still dream.....

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3/24/08

Fashionisto

probably every 5 mins on average

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3/24/08

Static

Funny you should ask...

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3/25/08

gelene

women don't think about sex the first time they meet me, but ofcourse, some do. hehe. there's just many different types of women especially when it comes to sex. when i ABSOLUTELY have nothing else to think about, i think about it..so, that's about so scarce. i don't know if that makes me abnormal. hehehe..

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3/25/08

offendedblogger

I can't believe this perverted thread is still going.

Ugh!

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1. 3/25/08
  
  TheMrs
  
  Did someone say pervert?
  
  Where!?
2. 3/26/08
  
  deege
  
  Found! One post up.
3/25/08

umesh

comment removed by the community.

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1. 5/25/08
  
  kat822
  
  oh what did you say????
2. 5/25/08
  
  kat822
  
  oh what did you say????
3/25/08

nardeeisms

Never.

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3/25/08

mitch972

Wow..so many comments. at least a few times every hour for me... I'm a Addict! I can't get enough.

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3/25/08

m4r1e

sex is part of our life, as normal people i do think about it a couple times a day.

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1. 3/25/08
  
  Sylvia
  
  omg, I almost didn't recognize you Chelle
  
  Will this help you get back in the mood?
2. 3/25/08
  
  DrowseyMonkey
  
  Sylvia ... do you have a pill or something that will erase that from my mind?
3/25/08

Sylvia

Never ever Never

Never Ever Never

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1. 3/25/08
  
  DrowseyMonkey
  
  I bet she's thought about sex a time or two.
2. 3/25/08
  
  offendedblogger
  
  *shivers*
  
  I won't be thinking of it for a while now, thanks Sylvia!
3. 3/26/08
  
  gosmelltheflowers
  
  LOL S....and Hi to hubby M....
  
  That makes you two S&M!!
  
  Lucky you!
4. 3/26/08
  
  Sylvia
  
  lol I think we might like that.
  
  That isn't anything painful is it?
3/25/08

dcg123

My mind occasionally wanders away from thoughts of sex. I come from a family with healthy sex drives. I'm not as good as I once was but, I'm better once than I've ever been before.

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3/25/08

soupnumber5

A little too often I think.

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3/25/08

LisaT

I used to be A.D.I.D.A.S.

All Day I Dream About Sex

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1. 3/25/08
  
  ekim941
  
  Whoa! Well, so far this is the first time for me all week
2. 3/26/08
  
  zackharis
  
  hehehe..that's a good one..i think i'm A.D.I.D.A.S too...
3/25/08

TheBloggerExposed

Well, if you saw my peep show, you'd never stop thinking about that sweet pole dance.

But seriously, there really must be something to women hitting their peak later than the guys, because I have never been so interested, willing, initiating and inventive. We'll leave it at that. =)

It's rather unfortunate that my marriage has fallen apart just when I need a guy around the most!

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1. 3/25/08
  
  ekim941
  
  Hello, My name is Ekim
2. 3/26/08
  
  gosmelltheflowers
  
  Dirty thirties, naughty forties...
  
  There is hope!
3. 3/26/08
  
  TheBloggerExposed
  
  Hello Ekim! I'm sorry I may not have anything to offer as far as marshmallow on a pole or a jelly shake....but I could improvise.
  
  Yes, it must be the dirty 30's. Not sure I know what the naughty 40's implies ...but if it's naughtier than the dirty 30's I'm a little scared. Luckily I still have several years to get acclimated to the 30's first. Of course, having been with the same person for so long, maybe I've just been naive. I just don't know where all this lust is coming from. I wrote a post a while back contemplating "What makes a woman feel sexy?" Maybe the answer is simply the dirty 30's!
4. 3/26/08
  
  Pentad
  
  Nothing beats the 40's bloggerexposed. heh.
3/25/08

LisaT

LOL@ekim hehehe you're awesome!

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1. 3/25/08
  
  ekim941
  
  Awww thanks ♥
3/25/08

timethief

Cat
Have you done any research on the effects of estrogen, viagra and other sex drugs like fertility drugs on aquifers and specifically their evidence on drinking water in USA cities? I suggest that there is enough material out there to write up one hellva blog post on the subject of these drugs in municipal waste water and their effects on the environment for sure. [Hint 1: reports are available for the USA - they are shocking; Hint 2: check out the feminization of fish and the occurrence multiple legged frogs and other amphibians]

In a companion post you might like to explore exactly where the notion that old men and old women want or "need" sex drugs came from and when it arose.

Exactly how much have pharmaceutical companies invested in advertising so our elders will cash their old age pension checks and then trot off to get a "sex drug" prescription with the proceeds?

IMO if you're going to blog then don't waste your time on re-blogging subjects that have been blogged/wanked to death.
Explore new territory!

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3/25/08

soupnumber5

Thinking about it again. Man. what a day!

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3/25/08

gmoney

now

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3/25/08

gmoney

now

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3/26/08

leedoyle

All the damn time... Since splitting with my girlfriend its got worse too.... But then again I am male... So its every 1 sec now instead of every 3 sex... woops 3 secs!.

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3/26/08

reasonablerobinson

Sex? ....aren't they what posh people put coal in?

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3/26/08

ChampDog

Honestly, quite often.

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3/26/08

inkjetoffice

all the time, as a normal human being...

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3/26/08

davet

several times a day...but not if i'm tv surfing and i come across Ellen or Oprah. that kills it right there.

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3/26/08

Nitehawk

I'm British. I just go and have a cold shower.

That's seventeen cold showers today, so far.

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3/26/08

Naturalwoman

several times an hour. i think i'm a man. maybe 4 or 5 or 6. nothing long, just thinking

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3/31/08

zahir

Hmmm...maybe several times a day.

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4/01/08

LGramlich

Almost never. I could easily live without it.

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4/14/08

banicmanic

(LoL) good question..!! to be honest, almost everyday.

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4/14/08

BillyWarhol

EVERY 2 SEX!!!

;PPP

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4/14/08

arvindsolid

nice question...ders a story in india abt this..a child ,after much hesitation and reluctance asks its mother what sex is...the lady shocked by the question and feeling the responsibility to answer explains everything from organs to orgasm,,,and the confused child asks back "mom how can i fill in all this in this application form...thy have askd for my sex"......donno if its an indian story..i heard it here...

www.arvindsapge.blogspot.com

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4/27/08

oxymoran

Funny you should ask that ...I just finished blogging about it...
oxymoran.blogspot.com/2008/04/couple-has-sex-for-14-minutes-condemned.html

so if you want me to include all the professional time I am FORCED to spend researching the topic for my blogs then I'll give you one answer. But if you want we to only count the time when I'm not on duty, and not thinking about it for the good of my readers,... but purely for myself... then I'll give you a different answer. So I await clarification.

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4/27/08

filmasia

* secret*

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1. 4/27/08
  
  manumartin
  
  come on, reveal the secret now... I think you often think many times and embarrassed to reveal it here?
4/27/08

sherliez

nice discussion....

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4/27/08

DrBurst

????????????
This post is fom last yeat, come on, let it die

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4/27/08

pinkpotter

It can last days without thinking about sex as can happen so often in a day I cannot really concentrate on my work. I really wonder how one can says she/he think about sex every five minutes (ok, may be at 18...)

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4/28/08

joo

How often do you think about sex? ...

Um. You mean my brain has other uses? ;P

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4/28/08

may66krm

Hmmm... It seems to vary. Sometimes I think about it quite often during the day, and sometimes it seems as if I could go days and not think of it.

I'd have to say on average? At least twice a day. Then there are the times when I actually DO it. But we wont go there, as it has been way too long.

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4/29/08

mephibosheth

has it

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4/29/08

jackpayne

Once a year--if I'm awake.

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4/30/08

LanceGoodThrust

WAY too often. Multiply the average male's thoughts by pi and that's how often I think about it.

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5/04/08

carriecrain

Currently, I'm writing a hot sex scene in my script. Heroine and Villain have torrid love affair. So, I'm thinking about. Quite often right now (for my heroine's sake). I've gotta get into character -- inside her head and all.

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5/25/08

graffiti

too much

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5/25/08

Anniepooh

"Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day! Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day!"

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1. 5/25/08
  
  ekim941
  
  Gouging out my minds eye, gouging out my minds eye.
2. 5/25/08
  
  aningeniousname
  
  I think you just turned me gay.
5/26/08

Digitalpolaroids

Actually, my answer would be: I think almost all the time about sex (meaning practicing, looking for it, wondering if next time it's going to be better or worst... )That happens when you don't have a regular couple like me right now.
OMG! I just recognized I like much more having a Bfriend. That's the best way to stop THINKING and START DOINGT IT.
Have a good week. Personally, I don't like Mondays... tell me why...

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5/26/08

captainobvious22

Now, yup then again, there, wait a sec - yup again... nope now remembering that pic of Sasha Baren Cohen posted above - my eyes - burning - arrrggghhh...

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5/26/08

bianca

haha = )

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8/14/08

ColdPhilter

Sex, sex, sex, sex, sex....I blame my obsession with sex on the media, and my pair of steel balls.....when I walk...they go "cling clang"....yeah, true story.

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8/14/08

kat822

wow this is a familiar thread, wigwamtheorm2 had his deleated and it was the exact same question but yet this one lives on to be drug up mmmmmmm interesting

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1. 8/14/08
  
  wigwam2theorem
  
  That actually wasn't my thread, but I am also really curious as to why that one was deleted
8/14/08

blogmyblogger

everytime i see gorgeous ladies.

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1. 8/14/08
  
  contentconnection
  
  owwwwww that's how gorgeous i am? hahaha and stephy? amf carlita? woooooowhhh
8/14/08

contentconnection

every second that's how hot i am... hahaha

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8/14/08

voodooKobra

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1. 8/14/08
  
  contentconnection
  
  0h well, TODAY is another day...
8/14/08

StrawberrySwirl

Like a guy. Every 2.5 seconds.

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8/31/08

kaguvkov

this is funny.

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8/31/08

reasonablerobinson

Less frequently than 'rationalisations' I believe a character that Jeff Goldblum played said that rationalisations are more important than sex...have you ever gone a week without a rationalisation?

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8/31/08

chrisso

I think about sex once...without interruption, since I was 13...;)))

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8/31/08

CrystalRaven

Honestly, about once every 3-4 months unless hubby initiates, then I kinda have to, now don't get me wrong, my hubby is wonderful in every way and I keep telling him and doctor there is something wrong with me, but everyone just pooh-poohs me

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9/05/08

othellobloke

I used to pity people without active sex lives... but now I kinda resent them (ones who don't have medical problems). Not having sex is plainly weird and unhealthy. Your stuff is like an engine... it needs to be taken care of.

Honestly? I think about shagging everytime I see a woman.

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9/08/08

travelinghumorist

When the stars are aligned.

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9/08/08

cmars2

I think of it once in a while, depending on my mood.

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9/08/08

acousticguitarist

never

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9/22/08

aminhers

sometime

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9/22/08

paup1

every now and then...

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9/22/08

poisonapplesauce

four or 5 times an hour, unless passing a construction site or fire station then it's more.

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9/23/08

RTBjr73

probably equivalent to the number of times my eyes blink per day.

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9/23/08

blackzero85

Ups...no comment.

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9/23/08

xmarks

constantly

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9/23/08

farangrakthai

Reminds me of a Thai "joke". American people always talk about sex but seldom have it. Asian people never talk about sex but often have it...

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9/23/08

NikkiCorrupt

Whenever I'm bored...which is often

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9/23/08

tjefferson85

Every second of everyday!!!

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9/28/08

DieselLives

Easier question to answer would be " how often do you NOT think about sex?".

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1. 9/28/08
  
  bladeaxe4
9/28/08

bladeaxe4

its always about recalling than to be thinking about it ~

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9/28/08

sharpodue

what's sex :S lol

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1. 9/28/08
  
  blackzero85
  
  Ohhhh pretending an ignorance. Thou shall be punished with.... sex. >_>
9/28/08

cranelegs

these are just averages mind you:
67 times a day (weekdays), 328 times saturday, 19 sundays, 144 birthday, 31 christmas.
except if a pet or close family member dies, then it drops to probably 6 or so for a few days.

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10/01/08

josephgelb

never ever

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10/01/08

Sway

wow this is a really old post. I think it depends on where I am, the situation I'm in, and the women around me. Like when, I'm at work or school I try to focus and not to think about sex. But while I'm out, sex crosses my mind every twenty minutes or so. However, I don't really spend much time thinking about it, maybe a second or so at a time. But, again if I'm with someone I want to have sex with then it's one my mind almost constantly. Even while I am using most of my brain power to think about other things, (conversation, or whatever) sex is still in the back of my mind. This however, is not true if I am getting a lot of sex, In that case, sex does not enter my mind nearly as much.

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10/01/08

helpdeskace

It seems like all the time, but mostly at night.

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10/01/08

vmaster

Every 7 seconds.

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10/01/08

jadedconformist

I rarely if ever....now.

now. now....noww.....omg. brb

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10/01/08

psychosolodiver

24/7.

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1. 10/01/08
  
  jadedconformist
  
  26/9
10/01/08

deejames

without my brain i wouldn't about sex anymore!! every cells of my brain about it every milliseconds...but just dont provoke me or you face the consequences.. lol

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10/09/08

7masterheathen

I don't think about it as much anymore since I'm on anti-depressants. That's one of the nasty side effects of most of those type of drugs. They tend to suck the sex drive right out of ya.

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10/09/08

janizarzagon

Just this morning!hehehehe!

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10/09/08

Bayho

hahaha that borat picture is too funny haha well anyways i dont really think about sex all that much i mean i am now i am only because you asked the question.. i guess i only think about it when im with someone.. who im going out with and im thinking if i want to have sex with them or not.. you know

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10/09/08

sahar

probably around 86,400 times a day (that's once every second).

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1. 10/09/08
  
  jadedconformist
  
  I don't think we've met.