Blog Catalog Discussion: Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?

Qaisar on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

Qaisar — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 19:50:21 -0500

i dont agree

Sellers79 on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

Sellers79 — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 18:30:56 -0500

I have to agree with you. I would much rather attack the guy then take a chance with my girls especially in that kind of situation.

Sellers79 on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

Sellers79 — Fri, 29 May 2009 21:01:01 -0500

Hey Susan, The guy did not kill the kid only hit him with a pipe. The kid was lucky that the father did not kill him.

Sellers79 on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

Sellers79 — Fri, 29 May 2009 17:26:21 -0500

I have to take the fathers side of this situation. Nobody knows if this guy had problems with break ins to his house or neighborhood. If I heard a noise coming from my daughters room at 4:00am and I opened the door to see a naked man standing their I would not say anything at all. I would do whatever possible to protect my family. I have two daughters and one on the way and a man broke into the house while my wife and kids were home, so I would not take any chances, especially if I was not aware of my 15 year old daughter having a boyfriend.

poisonapplesauce on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

poisonapplesauce — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 11:34:13 -0500

Okay, for all who said that the man was way out of line here, how was he to know it wasn't like this situation: http://www.theindychannel.com/news/17576601/detail.html A naked man came through a window with rope, a gag, knife, condoms, and tried to rape a 17 year old girl. To run out of the room and call the police could have ended up in a stabbing of himself or the daughter. I stand by my assertion that one cannot be too careful when it comes to their children. This naked guy was a boyfriend but the naked guy in the link I dropped was "Meyers was a registered sex offender and was released from prison two years ago after he had served 10 years of a 20-year sentence for criminal confinement and sexual deviate conduct stemming from a case in Hamilton County." In the dark all you can see is a naked man, above your baby girl.

thinkmaothink on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

thinkmaothink — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 10:07:32 -0500

was she raped?

Phoenix1962 on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

Phoenix1962 — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 09:47:30 -0500

If she was underage the father was well within his rights to protect his daughter who was being (statutory) raped.

http://www.newyorkparalegalblog.com/

ekim941 on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

ekim941 — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 09:39:21 -0500

I actually googled this story and couldn't find it.

According to google 15 year old boys in FL should only be having sex with their teachers. I think this boy was lost.

EXZombie on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

EXZombie — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 09:37:31 -0500

And he had a condom!

Oh wait, Wrong story..... Damn naked people in girls rooms between the hours of 3 A.M and 5 A.M getting me all mixed up.

ekim941 on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

ekim941 — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 09:35:47 -0500

at 4am. Don't forget that part.

thinkmaothink on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

thinkmaothink — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 09:34:42 -0500

If I was the dad, and I honestly didn't know about the bf, I'd freak out! ... and probabaly have done the same thing.

Think about it!
A naked guy, who you don't recognize, standing in your daughter's room.

MadameX on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

MadameX — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 09:06:35 -0500

"but I always give someone a shout before knocking
them out."

hm

danielpyle on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

danielpyle — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 09:04:47 -0500

I am so grateful I never got caught....when I was younger that is.

As far as the beating I am sure that the kid had no idea what hit him.
I would be mad if someone was having their way with my teenage daughter
I am sure we all would, but I always give someone a shout before knocking
them out. This guy is a coward. You always meet your enemy face to face.

It would be the last time that the young man was ever allowed in my house
or to speak to my daughter just because of the moral code violation, but
there is never a need for violence excepting self protection or protection of loved ones. This clearly from the description above was neither.

This guy needs to spend more time with his daughter explaining the rules
of the house. If his relationship with her is that estranged then he
is the one who needs to take the important step and make things right.

susan19843 on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

susan19843 — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 02:27:55 -0500

i think that the man had a rite to protect his daughter but i don't think that he should have killed him he could have restrained him and called the police cause now he will get done for murder

DrowseyMonkey on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

DrowseyMonkey — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 15:54:18 -0500

I agree with you MadameX ... the more I listen to people here at BC from the USA the more I think like the Red Panda ... it seems like a very violent mentality running through many of the comments from Americans and I find that surprising. It was the same when there was that thread about the Texas man who murdered a man by shooting him in the back because he said he was robbing his neighbour ... that man as found not guilty.

Anyway - the next time I hear Americans say it's TV or the movies that makes their society more violent I'll really roll my eyes, because Canada has the same tv & movies you all have. It really has been an eye opener hanging out here.

Enlight on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

Enlight — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 15:20:23 -0500

Many strange situations occur in America and around the world.

The power of the darkness of negative energy is engulfing many people nowadays.

parentconsensus on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

parentconsensus — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 15:11:31 -0500

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,429503,00.html

So this is a little different...an Indiana father, just this past Sunday morning killed a convicted sex offender he found in his home, naked, in or near his daughter's bedroom...not a 15-year-old-boy this time, an older man...and he was killed, not just beaten. Right or wrong what this dad did?

Enlight on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

Enlight — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 11:07:35 -0500

LOL, it must be the so-called freedom in America that causes to "censor".

Enlight on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

Enlight — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 11:05:52 -0500

People have issues concerning sex all over the world, I have experienced very strange, but that the result of repression from religion over a 1000 years.

If it isn't sex then it's food, money, religion, or territory

farangrakthai on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

farangrakthai — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 11:12:12 -0500

Indeed, so absurd we still wonder in Europe when did you start evolving in such a "funny" way. Or well,wonder whether you did not actually evolve at all after going to the US, from wherever, time stopped.
Whatever is evolution... :D

Enlight on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

Enlight — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 11:05:35 -0500

oops

EXZombie on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

EXZombie — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 10:55:30 -0500

Na, It just shows how loud and anal the minority is. The Majority was like meh it's a nipple but sadly the minority yells louder.

Enlight on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

Enlight — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 10:52:58 -0500

LOL, that shows how anal America really is about sex.

EXZombie on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

EXZombie — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 10:54:18 -0500

Yeah I know but you do need to understand that we're a nation that spent a whole season talking about how "immoral" Janet Jackson's nipple was. :P

Heh seriously though, Like someone said, Even though adults and kids know what is right and wrong we still choose the later.

Note: I don't know why I mentioned Janet Jackson's nipple or if it even applys to this conversation but it's been too long since it's been brought up and i'm Sleepy.

faithsju243 on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

faithsju243 — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 10:44:04 -0500

@faran....are you serious????? Kids and adults for that matter do tons of things that they know/understand are wrong.

farangrakthai on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

farangrakthai — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 10:33:08 -0500

I do not really agree, Zombie, but well, I'm a European, we do not really call it corruption... :D

werelax on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

werelax — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 10:31:46 -0500

You have got to be kidding, ever met a rebellious teen? You must believe they don't exist. Kids will do things they know are against their parents morals/rules/beliefs, for a large range of reasons. It is all quite normal.

Jeunelle on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

Jeunelle — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 10:35:10 -0500

Would I kill someone for having sex?

Many years ago when I was about 8 years old, I came home to hear strange noises
coming from my back yard. I went to see what it was making all that noise
and I surprised two dogs stuck together in heat. They were mating.

I got mad that they had the nerve to come to my house to fornicate and I threw a small rock at them. They couldn't separate and left the yard still stuck together but it was the look on their faces that made me realize how wrong I was. I don't think I ever forgave myself for what I did and it still bothers me
even today when I think about it. I came between them and their happy hour.

Of course I realize I was wrong to do what I did but I was young and I didn't use my head fast enough to understand that they are having joy. I simply didn't understand.

EXZombie on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

EXZombie — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 10:26:28 -0500

faran, A guy as dumb as me has been able to corrupt his fair share of Daddy's little Angels when growing up. No matter how much the parents gets them to understand all it takes is some buttering up and all the morals go right out the window.

Jeebus I hope I never have a daughter. I'm gonna end up being that father looking across at the boyfriend while cleaning his gun collection.

EXZombie on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

EXZombie — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 10:21:46 -0500

Faith, I think the thing that most people think is that the parents should of sat with the girl and said "Hey kiddo, Listen we know sex is out there and it's a chance that you'll end up doing it but we want to make sure if you do, You come to us first so we can talk"....

farangrakthai on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

farangrakthai — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 10:25:25 -0500

No, I did not say that. Children do not do what they're "taught", they do what they understand they should do or not do...

faithsju243 on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

faithsju243 — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 10:12:59 -0500

@farangrakthai...."May I remind everyody that what your children do is the result of their education? And their education is coming from the parents first."

Are you saying that to mean that kids do whatever they are taught? People aren't programmable devices the last time I checked and I'm almost positive this father didn't sit her down the night before and say yeah it's cool to invite your bf up for a romp only to belt him in the head.

EXZombie on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

EXZombie — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 10:03:52 -0500

I'd get out my belt thats for sure but a pipe to the head? Na, That's just too extreme for a little bit of the ol' fashioned laying the "pipe".

By the way...... Meow.

farangrakthai on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

farangrakthai — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 09:58:07 -0500

Hmm, why would your daughter do that in the first place?
May I remind everybody that what your children do is the result of their education?
And their education is coming from the parents first.
And I'm actually not too surprised a guy beat up the boyfriend of his 15 years old daughter having sex in his house...

Scribblerchick on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

Scribblerchick — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 09:41:03 -0500

I am the single mom of a beautiful 17 year old daughter. IMHO, the man gave that boy what he deserved. Maybe he overreacted, but I have to say, if I saw that, I would've gone in there with my basball bat and knock the kid senseless, too. The father shouldn't go to jail.

MPDZombie, your comments make the most sense to me.

Enlight on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

Enlight — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 08:57:36 -0500

In Upper Egypt they circumcise the girl because of fear, shame verses honor from sexuality.

In some of the conservative areas of the Turkish East, an honor killing could take place; although there is a difference from the Kurdish and the Turkish in Turkey.

The Kurdish for sure, both would be killed.

America is completely different in that respect.

farangrakthai on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

farangrakthai — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 08:49:53 -0500

I have 2 daughters, one is 16 and the other is 22.
I would just have been disappointed, very disappointed,not really something I would expect to happen.
Under my roof, that is... :D

ekim941 on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

ekim941 — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 08:45:09 -0500

MPD, the original post reads with a bit of a slant on the side of the boy, using words like "Armed" and "Beat". It was written more as propaganda than news and appears to be working.

Enlight on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

Enlight — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 08:44:18 -0500

Well, that is very good to hear that a little justice did take place, every state and country is different.

Even in Jordan within some areas an honor killing (murder) would take place.

MadameX on 'Man beats boyfriend of his 15-year-old daughter after catching them having sex. Right? Wrong? What would you do?'

MadameX — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 08:43:08 -0500

It's true that different states have different laws, but I'm not aware of any U.S. state in which this action would have been a crime (assuming that the father's story is true).