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What Do Women Want?
Posted by Jeunelle • 12/29/08 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: happiness, relationships, woman, women
What do women want?
What will make a woman happy?
You're thoughts please.
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This could take awhile...-
Sylvia...hahaha when I saw you hit the page I went ooh ooh here we go.
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LOL - that Silvia I like her sense of humour and she has a point!
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The answer is different for every woman.-
ain't that the truth
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Yeah, it's different for every woman, like MadameX said.
Like, love, jewelry, cute stuff, food.-
reason, honesty, some time alone with a good book...
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and what is stopping yau'll from getting what you want? May I ask?
Also do you feel guilty for wanting these things? -
Not sure which of us you were talking to, Jeunelle?
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Whoever feels like answering the question, I guess
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WOMEN WHAT DO YOU WANT?
WOMEN HERE IS YOUR BIG CHANCE TO SPEAK UP
This is not only a woman's discussion as men are free to participate.-
That's still a broad question, Jeunelle. Out of life? From a life partner? From friends and family?
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MadameX....yes let's make it as broad as we want, afterall I don't like to label personal wants like these, so gal's let loose and say what comes to mind.
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Sigmund freud after doing a big research on women finally said, "God knows what women want?" What does jeunelle want?-
Lizards in gladiator suits. Where have you been?
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vijayanths...Jeunelle wants to merge with God....final answer
It's what I always wanted and it's what I know will fulfill me.
Thank you for asking, you are very perceptive and inquisitive
and MadameX is right about all that other stuff too.
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I'll tell you what..shoes, bags, jewels, etc, etc...how do I know? my reminds me all the time -
@thesanto...I bet
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I think a woman wants love, care, a man who always is listening to what she says, jewels,dresses, flowers and above all the status of MOM. ( I'm not an expert in studying women, so bear with me if I am wrong)
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@vijayanths....I think there are quiet a few women who like this answer.
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I'm sure you're right for many women, Vijayanths, but I'm equally sure that you'll get into trouble assuming that there's one right answer to "what women want". For instance, men who are overly attentive grate on me, and I don't wear jewelry or care much about clothing. I'm not a particularly visual person, so flowers, while a nice gesture, don't do much for me and it's usually a while before I notice that they're dead and need to be cleared away. The mom thing is huge for me, but I know women who have zero maternal instinct and no desire to be "burdened" with children.
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excellent points raised MadameX
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Woman want happy husbands.
To make their husbands happy. lol
*Ducks and covers
J/K BTW-
@Dukepro25...sure and its also a two way street as women want to feel appreciated from their men too.
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Dukepro, I hope you're right--at least, for those women who choose to marry. It's hard to see why someone would enter into a lifelong partnership without wishing to make the other person happy.
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@Jeunelle
I can't heaarrrrr youuuuuu!
La la la la la la!!!
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Nice try Duke
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Worth a shot.
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Flat abs
cute shoes and clothes
to be adored
love
sex
I'll think of more-
LOL you don't ask for much -
hatintherain....that's a nice start
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Yeah, I've barely begun
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What!?!
Women want sex?
I thought that was only guys?
At least, that's what women want us to think.
All Men are perverts - wink, wink! lol -
Women don't want sex.
They want ROMANCE!!!
That's all they care about.
They could care less about the sex part. -
Yes I like to be ROMANCED
I'm old fashioned and I like to be COURTED
but that was long, long ago when I was interested in marriage -
women want romance AND sex
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@hatingtherain
Could of fooled us. lol -
Duke, I can't speak for all women, but "romance" annoys the *$#! out of me.
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LMAO MadameX has no stomach for it. Oh well
It's was fun for me at the time, I enjoyed it. -
*Ducks and hides once more -
Well I 2nd most of that response.
To be adored & appreciated, and of course good sex sure helps -
See now AngieA knows what she wants and I admire that
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daily massages
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ROFLMAO
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Duke, maybe you're talking to the wrong women
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Uhhh...
Didn't know there was more than one kind.
ZING!!! lol
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Jeunelle your speed is truly amazing. You think fast and reply fast. guess you are a very active and enthusiastic person. glad to be your friend.
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vijayanths....same here, nice to meet you
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ok so far
romanced
sexed
massaged
courted
flat abs
loved
adored
cute clothes
please copy the list add to and change it-
nice list siralmo...this is just the beginning
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Ugh!
Men are simple.
We just want sex and food.
Sleep is good too.
But that's about it. -
i like lists
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The List Nazi
No more lists for you!!! -
me? nazi? no.... im a cult leader
the cult of list
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romanced
sexed
massaged
courted
flat abs
loved
adored
cute clothes
HOME-
Kingtang....the list is getting better and add a big bank roll to that list. We need to moola.
romanced
sexed
massaged
courted
flat abs
loved
adored
cute clothes
HOME
Money
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Romantic dinners by candle light in an almost hushed atmosphere. Perfectly prepared food and a wait staff who only want to please. Scintillating conversation and some deep looks into each other's eyes.
In other words: no television, no sports, no bars, no yelling and hooting, no competition with the aforementioned and and and and .......................................... no rush.-
sounds delightful
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You tell em Theresa
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make it part of the list
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that would be really hard to simplify, siralmo, to put on the list
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Theresa111,
Girl you always know it all.
And I mean that in a good way. -
Oh one more thing......during dinner, No Belching!
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Dancing
Gag!!!
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Open-ended question targeted towards a specific gender? Yeah, let's all jump on that one.
What aspect of feminine compulsion do you want to know? Are you asking what women want from men (or in some cases, women)? Or perhaps what do women want in general? There are too many ways to interpret this question.-
read the description add to the list
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Women just want to be reassured that they're as good (or better than) everyone else, and sex.
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@voodooKobra....this is a open question... you can go any with this one.
Oh really??? hmmmmm
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Another loaded question. Wow, *thinking* I don't know, obviously - I've never once gotten it right - or, maybe the men didn't. Dang!-
"maybe the men didn't". Yup that's part of the problem alright
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Where are all the women tonight?
They must be with the men-
some of us are just lurking about tonight -
yes lurking
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Siralmo, I cleaned the coffee table today
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Awesome Sylvia is back, let's get this show on the road
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don't you have anything as little sturdier
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Like the kitchen table perhaps?
It's not glass though, hatingtherain was hoping to watch you from below -
the kitchen table may be a little better
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Long time no see Sylvia.
Welcome back.
No kitchen table!
Bad Sylvia! lol
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Constant attention. The desire to be flattered and pampered or even needed by a extremely masculine man with careless attitude.-
much like a baby??
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Yeah sounds like it
Well that's it for me...off to bed...Goodnight yau'll -
Constant attention?
I dont need constant attention, but the rest sure sounds good.
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Women would like a pair of underpants that won't ride up their butts.-
Not wearing any solves that problem
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LOL
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Shoes -
The 1st thing that came to mind was this scene, when asked the question.
What do women want. >
www.youtube.com/watch?v=7xHqRyiKWAo&feature=related
b/c we need a man who moves like this. -
BAHAHAHA i can do that
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I bet you can
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AngieA....That was a good movie
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Woman want 3 things...
money, sex & power......-
And Men want the opposite.
Power, Sex & Money lol
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romanced
sexed
massaged
courted
flat abs
loved
adored
cute clothes
Home
Money
Romantic dinners by candle light in an almost hushed atmosphere.
Perfectly prepared food and a wait staff who only want to please. Scintillating conversation
and some deep looks into each other's eyes.
In other words: no television, no sports, no bars, no yelling and hooting,
no competition with the aforementioned and and and and .......................................... no rush.
No Belching!
Dancing
Shoes
money, sex & power
Women just want to be reassured that they're as good (or better than) everyone else, and sex.
Male strippers and dancing on the kitchen table naked.
Constant attention. The desire to be flattered and pampered or even needed by a extremely masculine man with careless attitude.
Women would like a pair of underpants that won't ride up their butts. (Oh Lord)
I want more...sooooo much more -
Oh flat abs! Yes! I agree.
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Edit:
What I first wrote did not make sense or at least did not convey what I wanted to convey.
What all women really want is Shiva.
What men really want is Shakti.-
Why wait when you can become Shiva
Arthur Avalon said it best....anyone can become Shiva -
Or a man become Shakti...nope...I'm not even talking about surgery. -
LynneaUrania
I don't think I expressed myself well above so I edited. -
@Timethief...Yes you did express yourself very well, I understood just what you meant
and you are correct
LynneaUrania....Yes exactly
DeadRooster said it best...What you perceive you can achieve
and he's correct too
You gal's have me laughing here too -
Isn't shiva when you visit a jewish person's house after someone has died? You sit it.
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TRANSCENDENCE.
A life partner with a similar objective does much to assist her in this regard. Everything else falls into place with this singular purpose including outreach to others, sexuality, providing a stable home, you name it. None of these other things by themselves lend to much of anything. But to rise above all expected potential, to reach out for the Highest, to dream incredible things, to cultivate innocence to the greatest level one can possibly do, these aspects that express transcendence matter most.
Transcendence matters in passing the wonder of dreams to children and to show how magickal living can be.
It matters in awakening possibilities in those to whom we extend hospitality.
It matters in growing with the ones we love most.
It matters in how we remember one another in sickness and in death.
It matters in the way we sacrifice what we must.
It matters in giving us a reason to live and to love.-
YES!
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@LynneaUrania...Well said
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I read every post and didn’t see my name mentioned once?
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Someone that is naturally compatible with them. Not necessarily the same as them... just someone that they work well with by default. -
I don't think the answer to this question is the same as it used to be
the first thing to pop in my head would be confort and security.. aka a man.
BUT this day in age the roles are being switched. I think what women want is to be independent and to be able to have a strong group of friends and to be successful in this buissness world.
I think men are turning to confort and security.-
@TrashandGarnish...I think they each strive to be different but deep down they are the same.
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I can't speak for all women but,this is what I want. Someone that you don't have to take care of. Someone that can make the "right" decission w/out having to call you a million times. Someone that could tell me everything is gonna be ok. We all know that will never happen. Please people don't get me wrong bc I do have a good hubby that works very hard,but that's it I do everything else.
I would love to be taken care of for just one day.
ps I know I'm fixing to get a lot of bs from this comment but at least I said what I really want.-
HollytheHousewife...well said... I mean after all tell us how you really feel.
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That is the way I feel. I do appreciate his hard work. He is a good husband and daddy. I just wish men could realize that taking care of everything but your own self is kind of a hard job too. People just don't get it.
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I can only speak for myself but I want to be loved, respected and someone to laugh at my offbeat jokes I will be happy.
Oh if you can throw in some killer shoes that might put me over the top.-
faithsju243...gotta be the shoes
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WOMEN wants Commitment and EASY LIFE. SEX is always part of everything.-
@chosenclick...yes they do
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Women want support and understanding and love!
Most do anyway.... *shrugs*-
lordiwanttobewhole ...YES
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Sensible footwear.-
@lordsomber...YES very important
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Everything, including our souls.-
gearsofrock...you said it ....YES
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I'm a man (obviously).From my experience with women, I believe they want the following:
- Security
- Appreciation
- To be able to love with all their hearts
- To be be loved unconditionally for who they are
Ofcourse they want alot of other things, but these four are the deepest ones especially that last two.-
Arnous81....I like you already YES
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A Big house with a personal chef-
Mailrock....YES
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I personally want to meet my mirror image. Is that possible :D?-
absynthe....YES
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romanced
sexed
massaged
courted
flat abs
loved
adored
cute clothes
Home
Money
to be happy whenever they want, even when hungover-
juliegaffey...YES
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hopefully I'll get what I want tomorrow!
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most of the women i know want me to know through mental telepathy, which i guess i don't have much of since i always guess a new football.-
@cranelegs...HUH???
You want me to say Yes to this???? oK.... YES -
Punt.
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I get all the women Because I have the right tool to provide - Then they want you as you are - Tool is not given to everyone-
Of course, NYC, more and more women are buying their own power tools. But I think that's not what you're talking about.
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nycmovers....Ok, I'll accept that answer...YES
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ROFLMAO....YOU ROCK LynneaUrania
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romance
sex
massaged
courted
flat abs
loved
adored
cute clothes
Home
Money
power
Romantic dinners by candle light in an almost hushed atmosphere.
Perfectly prepared food and a wait staff who only want to please. Scintillating conversation
and some deep looks into each other's eyes.
In other words: no television, no sports, no bars, no yelling and hooting,
no competition with the aforementioned and and and and .......................................... no rush.
No Belching!
No Farting!
Dancing
Shoes
Women just want to be reassured that they're as good (or better than) everyone else, and sex Male strippers and dancing on the kitchen table naked.
Constant attention. The desire to be flattered and pampered or even needed by a extremely masculine man with careless attitude.
Women would like a pair of underpants that won't ride up their butts. (Oh Lord)
What all women really want is Shiva.
TRANSCENDENCE.
A life partner with a similar objective does much to assist her in this regard. Everything else falls into place with this singular purpose including outreach to others, sexuality, providing a stable home, you name it. None of these other things by themselves lend to much of anything. But to rise above all expected potential, to reach out for the Highest, to dream incredible things, to cultivate innocence to the greatest level one can possibly do, these aspects that express transcendence matter most.
Transcendence matters in passing the wonder of dreams to children and to show how magickal living can be.
It matters in awakening possibilities in those to whom we extend hospitality.
It matters in growing with the ones we love most.
It matters in how we remember one another in sickness and in death.
It matters in the way we sacrifice what we must.
It matters in giving us a reason to live and to love someone that is naturally compatible with them.
comfort and security
friends, success
Someone that you don't have to take care of. Independence
Someone that can make the "right" decision w/out having to call you a million times
Someone that could tell me everything is gonna be ok.
to be loved, respected and someone to laugh at my offbeat jokes and some killer shoes,
sensible footwear.
Commitment and EASY LIFE.
Women want support and understanding and love!
Everything, including our souls.
Security
- Appreciation
- To be able to love with all their hearts
- To be be loved unconditionally for who they are
A Big house with a personal chef
to meet my mirror image.
happiness
the right tool
You got all that Punk? -
Natural Tool is a Gift LynneaUrania , in this crisis there is nothing better than saving , Money is difficult to get , Real thing are free
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nycmovers....Oh YES
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To Jeunelle
This is not a melody to write :
Action that is what women are requesting-
ain't that the truth
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Life is short - Pleasure can make you younger - Beautiful - Security of Mind - of Course other thingshas to be Whith but there is a begining - a button to press to have some light .
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friends you can do everything with
I want a foot of fresh snow to ski in, every time I ski
the cat's shitbox to scoop itself
5 orgasms a week
a detachable showerhead (see above)
to laugh until my stomach hurts and my face muscles get sore
my husband challenges my thinking a lot and I like it (when I don't want to kick him for it)
interesting conversation
to be referred to as Rob's hot wife for the rest of my life-that's pretty rockin'
to live to 100
for my body to allow me to play sports until I'm at least 90
time for yoga
someone to publish my book, and giving me money for it would be cool too
whiskey
wine
chocolate
ice cream
morning swims
my car to run perfectly forever without emitting a single molecule of anything bad
a clean nice space
time to read good books-
SwedishSkier.....nice list but most of these you can get yourself, you don't need a mate to get them. For instance...some time for Yoga, morning swims, you don't need a mate for that.
However 5 orgasms a week, you may use a mate for that or buy your own power drill...lmao
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- to laugh more
- worry less
- to learn to accept what we cannot change
- to be brave enough to fight our demons
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What do you mean??
Why are we discussing this??
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I know I know what I want and the bigger the better...hey hey
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Classic Cindy
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someone to open those stooooopid stubborn jars!
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YUP
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i can't believe this thread is still going
check out the copycat thread www.blogcatalog.com/discuss/entry/what-do-men-want-1-
ROFLMAO hey whatever works man
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By the looks of things not very much Siralmo! LOL
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I think women like to be treated nicely and buy them lots of chocolate -
i follow this one
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YES I love chocolate.
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What chocolate??
Milk, White or Dark Chocolate?
So What's for dinner?? HEY, You Gotta Know Some Sad Songs!!
Do You Take Risks Majesty? Do I officially Like You, You Rock!!
What about building a wonder for your kingdom??
What did you do to me ?!!!
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OH OH, You got Google eyes for Jeunelle
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And we have a winner! Being nice helps, but never ever come home without the chocolate!
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Well, now, that's obvious, isn't it?
An adorable furry muppet....-
drjay1966...INDEED you're a cutey
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i still can't work it out
I'm reasonably good looking
kind
loving
I cook ( I'll say it again)
am intelligent
Play beautiful music
I work
...... these are just a few of my attributes... still not enough for some women-
haha but it is enough for the one you are with and I think she is very discerning
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Let's face it Sway, what man does?
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You are wise beyond your years inbusiness and sway.
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Women wants Respect, Love & Care... More then Any thing.. ... What i feel.(Very serious)-
Indeed
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Financial secturity, a good set of ears, someone to help out with the cleaning, and a fire between the bedsheets.-
Yup especially the fire between the bedsheets OK
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Freedom.
Probably not limited to women though..-
True
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What they can't get, like everyone else.-
hehehe this sounds dangerous to me
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Nobody knows. Women should be like a Major in college lol-
MEH....Try again.
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Parole for their paramour!-
hahaha YES
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Hello? Women want the Cooking Asshole!-
YES YES YES.
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Well I insist on having my fantasies
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And I insist on having my realities...they tend to last longer.
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Ha according to you.
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And safe sex = fantasies??? I prefer real sex, thank you.
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After a few drinks and you've passed out what's the difference? lmao
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Me, whiskey, lawn gnomes, shotguns, and mountain trails.-
Where is the WOMAN????
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In my pickup truck with a leash around her neck.
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Doesn't sound too romantic, it sounds more like what you want than what she wants.
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Noooooooooo
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Yessssssss
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My momma taught me better then that. Don't worry.
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Thank you Momma
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hehe,same as what men want or even more.-
I suppose
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haha umm I have a list-
Drop it like it's hot
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* The list is copied word for word, so some of the grammar/spelling may be a tad bit wtf-ish (I was 11 lol and just copied it from the blog to void link dropping)
1. He will be like 5 years older than me, so that he is mature
2. Has to be tall but not like giant, like maybe 5′10 tops
3. He will be southern and talk like the guy from The North and The South
4. Since he is southern he will be very polite and proper and never mean to a waitress
5. He will know how to Bar-B-Q and will make perfect steaks
6. He will be a super tipper
7. He make sure to tell me when I am wrong so I do not look stupid ever ever ever ever
8. He will have a lot of tattoos
9. He will have blue or green eyes
10. Strong and silent type
11. He will like animals and have a kind heart
12. He will be wonderful
13. He will be artistic
14. He will love family
15. We will grow old together and sit on a porch looking out over property
16. He will be a sailor and we will go on voyages together in the sea
17. He will be smarter than me and teach me new things all the time because he is older than me
You know, oddly enough, my idea of a perfect man hs not changed very much… just add insatiable sex drive, the ability to let me be the boss loyalty, honor, above average intelligence, a mean streak, and off course child friendly... other than those minor additions... I am still holding out for my perfect man list from 14 years ago haha -
Now that's a list
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I think when all is said and done, a woman, wants
someone to spend all her years with, someone who loves
her without reservation, and is faithful always.
I do not know what else exists in this life except
love, kindness, and forgiveness.
Certainly the trifles we strive so hard for are
in the end are as worthless as thistle down.
But, she is always a part of you as you are always a
a part of her. She is Shakti...You are Shiva.
Be kind to each other and you have all that is.
Count Sneaky-
Sounds good
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this one wants a man that she can torture.. physically, psychologically,..-
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I'm sure that is an easy task
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woman need protectly,love,care,and absolutely money.
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OK
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Damn this thread is still going strong.
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Men and women want the same thing.
They both want to be comfortable enough to trust the one they are with, they want respect and appreciation, they want to have great sex, and be able to do their own thing and have their own time.
Men aren't from mars and women from venus. We are from the same planet...we just speak different languages.-
YES
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To state it alltruly, it is happiness that everyone wants. The problem occurs in our definitions of what happiness is. Happiness is not a definition.-
BINGO
It took me months to get to say BINGO
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They want some hot furry Grover...that's what they want....
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Indeed
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hmmm really nice discussion
woman wants
loving hubby
romance
money
independence
baby
cook
makeup
latest mobiles
cloths
decorated house....
sweet family
and many more
here is my blog
umarkashmiris.blogspot.com/2009/05/celina-jaitley-hot-exposure-at-raju.html-
YES they want all that and more
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Security -
True
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The same as men, I guess, sex and money, in no particular order... -
Yup
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